Solving Men’s Problems at Scale

"The Google for Guys"

-Guy Shepherd

WHAT IS IT ABOUT BLONDES?

World-renowned anthropologist Desmond Morris solves an age-old mystery: What IS it about blondes? Tweet

Reflections of an Ex-blonde

“Males flirt with blondes—almost reflexively. Perhaps blondes do the same in return.”

Camille Paglia: Gloria Steinem’s Arch-Enemy

Looking for a primer on this warrior for common sense? Check out “Free Women, Free Men” (Pantheon, 2017)—a collection of Paglia’s best stuff from a lifetime of speaking truth to power.

Guy’s Guide to Staying Out of HR Jail

Do not whistle, shout or make animal noises at females in public, unless you’re talking to a female named Lassie.

Ladies, We are the Guys You have Been Looking and Longing For

To the women in our lives and the world: we mean you no harm whatsoever. There is no conspiracy here—nothing hidden. Quite the contrary—there is much good.

Cell Mates Make the Best Soul Mates

Both will be better served if you see the other as a “cell mate.” When you say, “I do” say it to your soulmate. Tweet

I have made a study of marital bliss and would like to share with you some of my key findings:

When a man gets down on bended knee, proposes and the woman says, “yes,” it’s because both believe they will be happier bonded to each other than facing the world alone. Pursuits of happiness and the pursuit of love are easily conflated in the Planned Man’s mind.

Yet the words “happy” and “happiness” don’t show up in marital vows. Of course, you give the nod to love—but with a single vow, it’s no longer conditional; it’s an unconditional part of a sacred contract.

The serious words follow: “honor,” “cherish” then you step around all the contingencies and say adios to wiggle-room—“in good times and bad,” “in sickness and health” and finally, “until death do us part”—because this is solemn, sobering stuff.