Men are in a state of arrested adolescence because they no longer have to work hard for sex.  In a world of abundant, free or pay-by-the-glass milk, few men need or want their own.

Mother’s Men are not Mama’s Boys. Mamas’ Boys don’t think for themselves. They are governed. They are subjects. Mother’s men are free men.

Since the miracle of Cana, the three rings of dating and mating—engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering—held steady.  That is until the 1960s and the advent of the Pill.  That's when everything changed.